Relationship Q&A | SCSG x CapoHJB x Cliff Tam & Tam Wai Jia

Event details: 

• Date - 26 March 2023 (Sunday) 
• Time - 4pm - 7pm 
• Venue - 5 Poh Huat Road 
• Fee - $8/pax (*sponsored by Bethel Presbyterian Church @ Poh Huat) 

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Program:

• 4.00pm - Registration
• 4.15pm - Welcome
• 4.30pm - Opening worship
• 4.45pm - Fireside chat
• 5.45pm - Closing worship
• 6.00pm - Dinner fellowship
• 7.00pm - End

Sample questions on identity: 

• As a single, do you ever feel something's wrong with you? How do you deal with that feeling?
• Do you feel a sense of shame about being single?
• Have you ever thought it would be best to adjust your personality in order to attract a man who might otherwise be intimidated by you?
• How will I ever experience satisfaction in life with unfulfilled desires and longings this basic to my person?

Sample questions on loneliness: 

• How often do you feel really lonely?
• What sort of relationships do you cultivate in your life to keep from getting lonely?
• How do you deal with sadness and jealousy when a friend gets engaged/married, or announces she’s pregnant?
• How do you handle the fear of being alone in your old age, with no one to care for you?

Sample questions on dating: 

• If I go out of my way to try to meet a spouse, does that mean I’m not trusting God’s sovereignty?
• What do you think about online dating?
• How can I trust God when I’ve been dateless for a decade?
• What does it mean to be equally yoked? Does spiritual maturity matter and how to ascertain that?
• Can single women and single men of comparable dating ages “just be friends,” and if so, how?
• What if I meet someone from a different denomination? How can we bridge the differences?
• How fast should I open up on deep topics and be vulnerable in a relationship?
• When do I go exclusive with someone?
• How do I pursue someone of the opposite sex I’m interested in?
• What’s the most important thing I should consider in my pursuit?
• What about singleness, is it wrong to be or stay single?
• Does marriage "resolve" loneliness?